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Love and Giving – Rabbi Zamir Cohen

Many people, when asked what love is, will define it as giving, but we have to specify exactly what that means. Love is to see the loved one happy and content,...

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The Holiness of Marriage according to Kabbalah – Rabbi Zamir Cohen

According to Jewish mysticism, every action that a person does in This World immediately affects, whether for the good or the opposite, all the higher spiritual worlds, through his spiritual...

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A Woman’s Honor: The Gates of Livelihood – Rabbi Zamir Cohen

A Woman’s Status According to Kabbalah According to Kabbalah, a woman is the secret (b’sod) of the tenth Sefirah, Malchut (kingship), which is the bechinah, or aspect of, the Divine Presence;...

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Rabbi Yigal Cohen – Love Your Wife

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Getting Appreciated Is In A Woman’s Control – Watch

Your browser doesn't support video. Please download the file: video/mp4 Leah Richeimer, the host of the weekly Ladies Talkshow Podcast, is a renowned author of relationship books, including Marriage Secrets and Dating...

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A Deeper Approach to Marital Harmony

Behold, you are  betrothed (mekudeshet) to me with this ring according to Moshe and Yisrael.” What does the word “mekudeshet” signify, and why, specifically here, is the name of Moshe...

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Healing a Marriage – It’s Never too Late!

Yes, You Can We all know couples still arguing and blaming each other even after many years of marriage, and who have given up all hope of a happy marriage....

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Divorce – The Right Perspective

Even though our Sages censure any divorce not absolutely necessary (see Gittin 90, that even the Altar cries. See also Sanhedrin 22), to our dismay this option has become, in...

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The Importance of a Wedding Photographer

When Rabbi Avraham Yaakov Pam, the esteemed dean of Yeshiva Torah Vodaas, would sit together with a couple who had come to consult him about a rocky marriage, he would tell...

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Marital Harmony: How Much Must I Sacrifice for the Sake of Peace?

Veteran married people often lament, “I know that it is all true, and that one must give in and sacrifice for the sake of peace. But where can I find...

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Do you Listen to Your Wife?

WIFE’S COMPLAINT: 1. “You don’t listen to me.” 2. “You don’t talk to me.” HUSBAND’S RESPONSE: “We talked about whatever was necessary. I really don’t understand what is bothering you. You talk so...

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The King’s Portrait – A Powerful Message for All Married Couples

There was once a very important king who ruled his kingdom wisely with strength and love, but he had some physical disabilities. One leg was crooked, he had an unseemly...

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Devotion in Marriage – Rabbi Zamir Cohen

Not many people know that “emunah,” (belief in God), is not only the knowledge that there is a Creator, as the word “emunah” is commonly understood to mean. The true...

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Can it be Real if it Doesn’t Come from the Heart?

Your browser doesn't support video. Please download the file: video/mp4 Leah Richeimer, the host of the weekly Ladies Talkshow Podcast, is a renowned author of relationship books, including Marriage Secrets and Dating...

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More Helpful Tips for Married Women – Rabbi Zamir Cohen

PATIENCE They tell the story of an old Chinese man who came from a family famous for the peace and contentment among them. This happiness went back many generations, and all...

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Helpful Tips for Married Men – Rabbi Zamir Cohen

When the first argument crops up between a couple, both become alarmed and feel pressured, and sometimes, even shocked and bewildered. We’re fighting? Can it be that I have reached...

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How to Break the Habit of Backseat Driving – Watch

Your browser doesn't support video. Please download the file: video/mp4 Leah Richeimer, the host of the weekly Ladies Talkshow Podcast, is a renowned author of relationship books, including Marriage Secrets and Dating...

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Watch: Steps to Cure your Husband’s Lack of Appreciation

Your browser doesn't support video. Please download the file: video/mp4 Leah Richeimer, the host of the weekly Ladies Talkshow Podcast, is a renowned author of relationship books, including Marriage Secrets and Dating...

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How to Respond to your Wife’s Complaints

Below are common complaints that husbands and wives have towards each other. Understanding both sides of the coin helps the husband know how to help his wife when she puts...

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Helpful Tips for Married Women – Rabbi Zamir Cohen

LISTEN CAREFULLY TO HIS ACCUSATIONS   Even if you are certain that your husband is at fault and his claims against you are unjustified, listen to what he has to say....

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A Lofty But Spiritual Reality – Leah Richeimer

Your browser doesn't support video. Please download the file: video/mp4 Leah Richeimer, the host of the weekly Ladies Talkshow Podcast, is a renowned author of relationship books, including Marriage Secrets and Dating...

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The Jewish Marriage Education Men Teachers Training Course

The 24 hour series includes both the Halachos and the Hashkafos of the Jewish home, Taharas Hamishpacha, Shalom Bayis, Tznius and Chinuch Yeladim and how to give over these subjects...

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Tips for Married Life: The Proper Attitude Toward Arguments

When the first argument crops up between a couple, both become alarmed and feel pressured, and sometimes, even shocked and bewildered. We’re fighting? Can it be that I have reached...

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How to Generate True Love in your Marriage

Remember this one? A guest at a wedding is given a choice of appetizer. “I like fish,” he may reply. He is mistaken. He likes himself and uses the “fish”...

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7 Marriage Secrets Every Woman Must Know

1. It’s not about being equal; it’s about having harmony For the last 60 years, the big word has been equality. In a Jewish marriage, though, equality is the wrong measure....

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Marital Harmony – A Lesson from the Fly and the Butterfly

A  MATTER  OF  PERSPECTIVE   The  story  is  told  of  Rabbi  Eliezer  Silver  who  once  asked  a  Holocaust  survivor  to  join  a  join  a  minyan  (prayer  quorum  of  ten  men  over  the ...

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The Gardener’s Tale – A Message for Husband’s

In the years when telephone tokens were commonly used for public phones in Israel, one could buy them in supermarkets as well.   One store manager couldn’t help noticing that a certain...

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How Often should you Compliment your Wife?

By nature, a person needs to hear reinforcement of his admirable traits and good deeds. Praise and compliments create a pleasant feeling in one’s heart, strengthen love between the giver...

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Practical Tips for Conveying Criticism to your Spouse

The primary rule in voicing criticism is: express what is bothering you without denigrating the other person or inciting anger. Before expressing your criticism, first ask yourself: “What do I...

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Constructive Criticism in Marriage – Part 1

THE POWER OF THE TONGUE King Solomon, the wisest of all men, declared: “Death and life are in the power of the tongue” (Proverbs 18:21). Death is not in the hand...

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Psychological Differences Between Men And Women

Let’s explore the results of studies which reveal the emotional differences between men and women in a variety of manifestations.   In the twentieth century, psychological researchers unanimously maintained that the psychology...

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Rabbi Nosson on Marriage: “Divorce is Not an Option”

Rabbi Yoel Roth said over a story of Rabbi Nosson and his whole approach to marriage: Do you have a tough life? Are you married and have difficulties with your marriage?...

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Is He/ She the Right One? How Do I know?

Deciding to proceed to marriage or to break up should be based on actual information that can show you if the relationship you are entering in this marriage will lead...

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How should a Man Relate to his Wife? Letter of the Chazon Ish

These are the words of the Chazon Ish from a letter he wrote, explaining how a man should relate to his wife: “And please his wife, whom he has taken,” (Deuteronomy,...

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The Path to Happiness in Married Life

It’s obvious that if a country has two presidents in charge, it won’t function properly and will quickly collapse. But if you have two cabinet members, each with different duties,...

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What is the Most Important Principle in Building Marital Harmony?

Let’s start with a common question: What is the natural state of a married couple — happy, or not so happy? When we raised this question in front of an audience,...

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Rabbi Gifter Always Bought His Wife Flowers for her Birthday Even when he was Wheelchair Bound

In the days before Yom Kippur Rabbi Mordechai Gifter was really working hard on his spiritual growth. His children relate that he would sit at the table trembling from the...

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Domestic Peace Means Understanding Your Spouse’s World

Every young man and woman reaching the age they think about marriage get waves of emotions, questions and doubts sweep over them: Will I have a good life or not?...

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G-d, Please Make a lot of Weddings this Year

Kol Nidrei was heard around the world in every language 5758 is coming onstage after 5757 collected its equipment and exited the stage With whatever happened in the last 365 days Marking a...

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The Guide for a Successful Marriage

A student of Rabbi Aryeh Levin of marriageable age came to ask his advice on marriage. He asked his rabbi, “How should I behave toward my wife? How should I...

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Made in Heaven: Marriage

There’s an expression that marriages are made in heaven. This comes from the Talmud: “Heaven decrees that this woman is to be the wife of this man” (Tractate Mo’ed Katan...

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The Jewish Husband and Wife, Building their Eternity Together

Before G-d gave the Torah to Israel, He told Moses: “So shall you say to the House of Jacob - referring to the women - and speak to Israel -...

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From where will I Have the Strength to Keep on Giving In?

Every so often you will hear one of the spouses of a long lasting marriage ask: “I know it’s important to give in and sacrifice for peace. But from where...

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To Give In, Give In and Give In

Here are 10 choice quotes from Rabbi Shteinman on various challenges of our generation. 1. “Give in, give in and give in- those are the 3 things people should do for...

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How to Stop Fighting with Your Spouse

Lowering your expectations is sound advice for preventing arguments, anger and disappointment! A husband or wife discovers that after mentioning something man y times, the thing they asked for didn’t happen...

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You Make Sense and Yet You’re Wrong

He says: “You’re closing me up; you don’t let me talk to my friends freely”. She says: “He’s forgetting he has a wife and children.” What is correct and what is wrong...

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Torah Advice for Domestic Harmony

When Eve was created from one of Adam’s ribs, G-d put Adam to sleep beforehand. The world’s first case of general anesthesia! The question is why did Adam need to...

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It Depends How You Look At It

Once Rabbi Eliezer Silver needed a tenth man for the afternoon service, the sun was going to set soon and then it would be too late. He gently approached a...

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What Compliments Do For Your Spouse

You should take the initiative to compliment and praise your spouse even in times you don’t feel a special need to do so; the benefits are many. 1. Future gain: Our...

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How Can I Stop Fighting with My Spouse?

When you fight the issue on hand may just be hiding something else. Watch Rabbi Schonbuch and hear what he says about this, it will help improve yor marriage and...

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How Can I Deal With My Narcissistic Spouse?

Even if you try everything you may not get immediate results. Watch video to see what Rabbi Schonbuch recommends. click on link for video http://www.hidabroot.com/video/191560/Rabbi-Daniel-Schonbuch/QA---Dealing-with-a-Narcissistic-Spouse Or view on You tube right here:

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How Can I Make a Commitment?

Rabbi Jonathan Rietti with alot of humor, gives us the the correct apprach to marriage (and Torah and every other meaningful commitment) to give us the courage and other tools...

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Why Doesn’t My Wife Invest in Our Marriage?

Obviuosly giving her self help books won't do the trick! What will? See this video to find out what DOES work! http://www.hidabroot.com/rabbi/55414/Rabbi-Daniel-Schonbuch Or watch our You Tube

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Oh No! My Mother In Law Moved In!

A woman complains that her mother in law lives with them bringing resentment into the house, shouting at the kids, and encroaches on their privacy and her husband won't hear...

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I Can’t Take My Spouse’s Criticism!

King Solomon said; “Life and death are in the power of the tongue.”  Death is not in the hands of someone holding a gun and life isn’t in the hands...

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Single and Suffering? Holiday Advice

Hello Hagit. I am a 30 year old woman, and the holidays are too difficult for me to bear! I experience Loneliness, coping with the family's questions, pitying looks, and...

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Why Don’t I Get Married?

Even picking a challah bread in the store is difficult for him; maybe this challah is better, maybe this one is fluffier. But, wait one moment it's too white it's...

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My Husband Wears a Mask All Year Round

These days last week we were very busy looking for Purim costumes. Who doesn’t get excited with all the great choices we have of costumes and masks. Everyone tries to...

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New from Hidabroot: Free Series on Marriage

Rabbi Daniel Schonbuch, LMFT, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. His warm and empathetic approach has helped thousands of individuals and couples achieve emotional wellbeing and improve their relationships. He can...

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What Does Hasidic Wisdom Say About Marriage?

Most people have probably discovered by now that there is no correlation between ‘Valentine’s Day’ and love. But let’s talk about love itself. The Lubavitcher Rebbe wrote many books for...

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Should I Help My Spouse or Wait For Him/Her to Help Me?

Which is better, to do something kind for your spouse or to wait for him to do something nice for you? A new study shows that from a health perspective...

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Chanukah = Finding Your Match!

Even if you’ve tried everything don’t give up! Chanukah is a time of salvation and with a bit of effort in your prayers you can merit your own personal salvation...

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I Still Can’t Watch my Wedding Video 14 Years Later!

I look at the groom in the pictures and he seems strange to me, a bit shallow and superficial. I pity him. He was busy with vanities, writing music critiques...

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More Halachic Questions in Wake of Israeli Fires

The Chief Rabbi of Zichron Yaakov, Rabbi Mordechai Abramovski stated that a man and wife whose Ketuba (marriage contract) was burned in the fires could not live under the same...

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The Teachings of Our Sages on Marital Harmony

Rabbi Yishmael taught: Great is peace, as the Holy One blessed be He allowed His Name, which was written in holiness, to be erased by water in order to create...

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The Strength to Cope

We often hear older couples expressing their frustration by saying:  “I know it’s all true, I must give in and sacrifice for the sake of peace, but where do I...

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Good Tips for a Happy Marriage

Listen to your wife’s complaints Even if you’re absolutely sure that your wife is wrong about you, hear her out and listen to her complaints. Maybe it will suddenly occur to...

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A Practical Guide for Husband and Wife – Rabbi Zamir Cohen

In his great work, Mishneh Torah, the Rambam (Maimonides) surprises his readers in that he does not give the same relationship advice to both partners, instead, he makes one set...

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The Secret To A Happy Marriage

One of the most painful topics to many people in our generation is the topic of marital discord. In Israel, one out of every three couples makes its way to...

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A Shared Language in Marriage

A well-known Rabbi once got a call from a couple in the midst of a heated argument. The call came at midnight, and the wife involved said it was an...

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A Double Life?

I’d been in shidduchim for about three and a half years, and I was jaded by the whole process, to say the least. I’d been on date after disappointing date,...

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The weddings

I have never owned a personal calendar. Years ago, in my younger days, I kept all my appointments and telephone numbers in my head, and the system miraculously worked. As...

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Packing up and moving on

The day the realtor hammered a huge wooden “For Sale” sign in my front yard, I sat on the sofa in the living room and cried. My daughter, who was...

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Dodging the barbs

I knew my mother-in-law and I would get along. We had similar goals, we both worked, we both enjoyed learning and attending shiurim. She greeted me with a warm hug...

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Truant

“He skipped yeshivah for the week?” I said incredulously. “And your parents have no idea?” My husband laughed. “Come on, Yocheved. It’s not the first time he’s done it. He’s...

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The Worst Marriage Advice in the World

Marriage is about Compromise If you use compromise in your marriage, you not only suck the life out of your marriage, you suck the life out of your life. For example,...

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Budget Blues

Early on in our marriage my parents supplemented my meager paycheck; when our babies arrived they showered us with a full layette—plus the Bugaboo carriage I’d dreamed of. But now...

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Help, My Husband Has Retreated Into His Cave Again

LORI PALATNIK is an outreach educator, public speaker and author. She is also the founding director of the Jewish Women’s Renaissance Project. Women have to remember that we aren’t married...

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Harnessing Our Gift of Imagination – R. Yemima Mizrachi

I recently gave a shiur to a group of American businesswomen, managers of large companies, at a conference whose subject was, “The Power of the Jewish Woman.” “What do you...

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Between Minchah and Maariv

  Minchah is early now, and into the shul from the street blow the careworn and the bedraggled, the humble and the successful,the everyman and—my favorite Jewish archetype—the luftmentch. From far-flung...

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Clarity and Calmness in Marriage

We’re going to have to face it sooner or later — keeping up defenses doesn’t work in marriage. It prevents us from getting close. Defenses are inappropriate barriers to have...

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Smiling: Required by Law

We often deal with stresses and pressures in our marriages. The problem is intensified when we do not know how to handle all this tension.  It's like a snowball effect:...

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Careful Criticism in Marriage

Criticism, especially when it is packaged as sarcasm, is cruel and relays a message of rejection. It is never helpful to sit down and list our husbands' negative character traits....

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The Secret Language

Once a wise man was traveling when he met a wanderer. The wanderer was tired and went to sleep in a very old and dilapidated house that was literally falling...

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Ensuring Healthy Communication In Marriage

How can we progress from being unable to communicate with our husbands to being fluent in a shared secret language? This can only be achieved by listening to each other, talking...

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Love is Based on Giving

The story is told about two brothers. These brothers each had a plot of land on either side of a mountain. The younger brother had a large family, while the...

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The Wise Husband – Rabbi Yirmiyohu Abramov

It once happened that a couple were having marriage problems. After a rabbi and his wife spoke to both of them it became clear that one of the wife’s main...

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Quality Time in Your Marriage

The Mishnah teaches us that the frequency with which a husband is obligated to fulfill the mitzvah of onah(1) is a function of his occupation. It speaks of several different...

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What is True Love? – Rabbi Yirmiyohu Abramov

One could look at the Torah’s laws concerning the mitzvah of onah and say that it is unfair. Why is the full burden placed only on the husband? How can...

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The Hedge of Roses

In a marriage guided by the Torah, the sympathy between a man and a woman should steadily increase throughout their marriage. As they come to know each other better, they...

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Becoming a Sensitive Husband

The magnificent system of harchakos is all the more pertinent for men, because without it, men would lack the self-control to stand up to the requirement to avoid having relations...

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י״ז במרחשון ה׳תש״פ (15 בNovember 2019)

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The Inherent Difference Between Husband and Wife

The feminist movement created an awareness of many valid claims. It was born as a result of women being abused by a male-dominated, non-Jewish society. As a result, women felt...

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Marriage – Total Commitment

In order to have a successful marriage, we have to totally commit ourselves. We need to learn to give of ourselves in every way. Perfunctory donations and token gestures are...

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Heavenly Harmony or Fiery Discord?

To properly understand the intricate relationship of the marriage bond, we must note a unique distinction between this relationship and all other familial relationships. We are not born married; the...

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A Harmonious Marriage – What are the Odds?

After G-d created all the creatures in the world, there was still one missing component. In order for the world to be complete, there was one creature which still needed...

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A Timeless Formula for a Happy Marriage

The institution of marriage is under siege. In the Western world, divorce rates hover around an unparalleled fifty percent. Due to pressures of today and extraordinary social confusion, levels of discord...

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Striving for Excellence

The famous tzaddik of Jerusalem, Rav Aryeh Levin, of blessed memory, once accompanied his wife to the doctor. When the doctor asked the couple what was the reason for their...

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Jewish? Welcome to First-Class

Perhaps you've wondered, as have many scholars, how the Jews have survived as a people throughout so many centuries of wandering. No other nation has been able to maintain its...

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י״ז במרחשון ה׳תש״פ (15 בNovember 2019)

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Who Says You Can’t Change Other People?

Korach’s wife poisoned her husband's heart with jealousy. Then Korach, Moshe Rabbeinu’s first cousin, began to set in motion a rebellion against Moshe because he himself wanted to be leader...

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The Mother is the High Priest of the Home

The quality of a person’s life is determined by the attitude the individual chooses to hold about his life. Some will say, "Well, I don’t have a positive attitude toward...

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The Enormous Value of Peace

There was a great sage by the name of Rabbi Meir who used to give a lecture every Friday night. A certain woman used to attend on a regular basis....

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Two Halves of a Whole

Why is the concept of "marriages being made in heaven” so important? As incredible as it may seem, it is the basis for harmony in the home. In the spiritual sense,...

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Did I Make a Mistake By Marrying this Person?

In Europe, two great Chassidic rabbis once decided to make a match between their children and arranged for them to meet. The girl’s father told his daughter all about the...

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The Personality Clash in Relationships

To the objective outsider, a sensible solution to a couple’s dispute may seem so easily achievable. When under the strong influence of different backgrounds and tastes, however, personalities can clash...

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Entering Into Marriage – Great Expectations

Let’s assume you’ve recognized the wisdom of the Jewish approach to relationships, and you’ve put it into practice. Now you’ve met someone very special. Rose-colored glasses have stayed in their...

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Marriage – Made In Heaven

They were both in intense pain at the prospect of going through with this. Still, the childless couple approached Rabbi Shimon bar Yochai and requested that he write them a...

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Now You See It — Now You Don’t

Touch creates a bond. If you’re smart, before bonding with another person, you’ll make sure that bond reflects something genuine and is therefore one you really want. To gain that...

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Breaking Free of the Motions of Marriage

Research reveals that routine is the greatest enemy of the marriage relationship. No other factor seems to play as central a role in undermining interpersonal commitment, and in eroding the...

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The​ Brain is the Hardware of the Soul

The brain is the part of the body that we tend to ignore, because it supposedly runs on its own. But in fact, it needs to be nurtured. It's your...

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Proving the Truth

In previous articles, we dealt with personal and social aspects of truth relativity. The inevitable conclusion was that the existence of an objective, absolute truth is a necessary condition for...

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י״ז במרחשון ה׳תש״פ (15 בNovember 2019)

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ACTIVITÉS HIDABROUT. SECTION “Chalom Bayit: Paix au sein du foyer”.

ACTIVITÉS HIDABROUT. SECTION "Chalom Bayit: Paix au sein du foyer".   Plus de 5000 appels pour demande d’assistance, qui ont débouché sur la prise en charge de 3500 couples en difficulté...

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ז׳ באדר ה׳תשע״ז (5 בMarch 2017)

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Couple : demandez au Rav.

Couple : demandez au Rav. Nous pensons au mariage mais les parents s'opposent.  Question :   Bonjour… J'ai 23 ans et cela fait plus d'un an que je sors avec un copain Nous venons...

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Chidoukhim et recherche du conjoint

Chidoukhim et recherche du conjoint   On l’a oubliée à la maison : la jeune fille qui cherche (toujours) un Chidoukh (Chidoukh, au pluriel Chidoukhim : rencontre d’une personne en vue de mariage) Quelles...

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