Relationships

I don't feel like going to the mikvah

17.02.15

Question

I'm a marriage Counselor in Spring Valley and I have the following question which comes up alot:
Can a woman postpone going to the Mikvah becuase of a serious fight the couple is in?
Can a woman say "I'm not able to go to the mikvah presently?"

Answer

The husband is obligated to bring about domestic peace and bring his wife to a situation she will be amenable to go to the Miukvah. tha wife should try and be prepared for appeasement and not be inflexible and difficult. If she sees her husband 'climbed up a high tree and can't climb back down' she should give him a ladder, the opportunity to get down and still keep his respect so he can appease you.
May G-d bring peace between them and may they live with love and friendship.

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