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Words Have Power: 5 Bite Size Parables for Everyday Life
Five simple parables that reveal powerful lessons about gratitude, faith, personal growth, and the impact our words have on our lives and those around us.
- Dr. Ariel Kaduri
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Life is filled with small moments that carry powerful lessons. Through simple stories and everyday situations, we can discover deeper truths about gratitude, growth, faith, and the impact we have on others.
Thank You for Everything
One day, a young man came to the synagogue with food and drinks. When people asked what the occasion was, he replied, “It’s a thanksgiving meal. Yesterday, as I was crossing the street on my way to work, a car hit me. Baruch Hashem, I walked away safe and sound.”
The next day, another man arrived with refreshments as well. Curious, people asked, “What happened to you? Did a car hit you too?”
He smiled and said, “No. I’ve been crossing that same street every day for twenty years, and a car has never hit me. That’s what I’m grateful for.”
It’s natural to thank Hashem after being saved from danger or illness. But we often forget to thank Him for the quiet, everyday miracles. When nothing goes wrong, when we are healthy, when we have food, clothing, and stability, that too is something to be deeply grateful for. What feels routine is often the greatest gift of all.
Elevating Anger
One day, a teacher walked into class and found his students arguing loudly, shouting, and insulting one another. Without saying a word, he went to the board and drew a one meter line.
“Who can tell me how to make this line shorter?” he asked.
Students suggested erasing part of it or altering it in different ways. The teacher shook his head. “You must make the line shorter without touching it.”
The room fell silent.
After a few moments, the teacher drew a second, longer line next to the first.
Suddenly, the answer was clear.
“To make something appear smaller,” the teacher explained, “you don’t have to cut it down. You just have to grow something bigger.”
The same is true with anger. We don’t need to put others down or hurt them in order to feel stronger. Instead, we can rise above. Anger can become an opportunity to grow, to develop self control, and to respond with strength instead of reaction. When we elevate ourselves, we protect our relationships and bring more light into the world.
Hold My Hand, Dad
A father and his young daughter were about to cross a river. Concerned for her safety, the father said, “Please hold my hand so you don’t fall.”
The little girl looked up at him and gently replied, “No, Dad. You hold my hand.”
Surprised, he asked, “What’s the difference?”
She answered softly, “If I hold your hand, I might let go if something happens. But if you hold my hand, I know you will never let go of me.”
In life, we all face moments of fear and uncertainty. It’s comforting to remember that Hashem is always holding our hand, even when we don’t feel it. No matter how difficult things become, He does not let go. We may feel alone, but we are never truly alone. Hashem stays with us, supports us, and carries us through every challenge.
Dead End? Not So Fast
A dog once found himself alone on an African safari. Suddenly, he noticed a tiger running toward him, ready to attack.
Thinking quickly, the dog spotted a pile of bones nearby. He sat down with his back to the tiger, picked up a bone, and said out loud, “That tiger was delicious. I wonder if there are more around here.”
The tiger froze. “That dog ate a tiger?” he thought, and quickly turned away.
Up in a tree, a monkey had seen everything. Hoping to gain favor with the tiger, he rushed over and revealed the truth. Furious, the tiger said, “Climb on my back. We’ll go deal with him together.”
From a distance, the dog saw them approaching. Instead of panicking, he sat down again and said, just as they got close, “Where is that monkey? I sent him to bring me another tiger half an hour ago.”
Sometimes life puts us in situations that seem like a dead end. We feel trapped, overwhelmed, or afraid. But even then, there is always another way forward. Instead of giving in to fear, we can pause, turn to Hashem, and trust that a solution exists. When we look beyond panic, new possibilities appear.
The Power of Words
A group of frogs was hopping through the forest when two of them fell into a deep pit. The other frogs gathered around and, seeing how deep it was, began shouting, “You have no chance. Don’t even try.”
The two frogs tried to jump out, but the voices from above continued. “It’s useless. Give up.”
One frog lost hope, stopped trying, and remained at the bottom. But the second frog kept jumping, again and again, until finally she made it out.
The others were stunned. “How did you do it?”
The frog began to gesture excitedly. Only then did they realize she was deaf. She had thought their shouts were words of encouragement.
Words have incredible power. They can either break someone down or lift them up. A single encouraging word can give someone the strength to keep going. Instead of criticizing or discouraging, we can choose to speak in a way that builds others. Even when someone feels stuck at the bottom, our words can help them believe they can rise again.
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