Passover
Pockets Full of Nuts: The Passover Game That Kept Kids Awake
Why were nuts given to children on Passover? A beautiful look at a simple custom that keeps the Seder alive with questions, meaning, and connection.
- תהילה כהן
- |Updated

Passover is filled with memories, meaning, and small traditions that carry deep significance. For many, it brings back a simpler time; spring in the air, children playing outside until evening, and joy found in the smallest things.
Among those simple joys was a humble game played with nuts. But behind this childhood memory lies a powerful educational message that continues to shape the Seder experience today.
A Simple Game, A Lasting Joy
In the past, children did not need much to be happy. One of the most popular games was “odds or evens.”
Children would walk around with pockets full of nuts, ready to play at any moment. One child would hide a number of nuts in their hands and ask, “Odd or even?”
If the guess was correct, the player won the nuts. If not, they would give up one of their own.
The game was simple, quick, and full of excitement. It brought laughter, connection, and a sense of friendly competition.
More Than Just a Game
But the nuts were not only for play.
They were part of the Seder itself.
The purpose was to keep children awake, engaged, and curious, so they would participate and ask questions. This helps fulfill the mitzvah of telling the story of the Exodus to the next generation.
As the Talmud teaches in Pesachim 109a, Rabbi Akiva would distribute nuts to children on the eve of Passover so they would stay awake and ask questions.
This practice is also brought in the Shulchan Aruch, which instructs us to give nuts to children so they will notice the differences of the night and ask.
The Mishnah Berurah explains that this awakens their attention and encourages them to take part in the questions of the Seder.

The Deeper Lesson Inside the Nut
A nut is made up of layers. Its shell hides what is inside.
This teaches an important idea.
Not everything is revealed at first glance.
When a child cracks open a nut, they discover that something valuable was hidden within. This simple action reflects a deeper process of learning and discovery.
The Message of the Seder
The Seder is built on questions, curiosity, and searching for meaning.
Just as you open a nut to reach what is inside, the story of the Exodus invites us to look deeper, to understand what is beneath the surface.
The journey from Egypt is not only a historical event. It is a process of uncovering truth, both in the world and within ourselves.
Looking Beyond the Surface
The Jewish people themselves carry this message.
Even when things may appear unclear or difficult on the outside, there is always an inner core of goodness.
Hashem sees beyond what is visible, recognizing the purity within.
The nut reminds us to do the same.
To look deeper.
To search for meaning.
And to recognize the hidden goodness within every person and every moment.
עברית
