Remembering Noam Raz: A Legacy of Humility and Strength

Tonight marks the start of Yom HaZikaron, Israel’s Memorial Day, a time when the nation pauses to remember those who gave their lives in its defense. Among the many extraordinary figures remembered today is Yamam fighter Noam Raz hy"d, a man whose life and character left a deep and lasting impression.

Noam was not only a veteran operative, but also a sniper and a paramedic. He was killed during Operation “Breaking the Wave” while taking part in a mission to arrest terrorists in the village of Burqin, near Jenin. His story is one of courage, but even more than that, it is a story of quiet strength.

A World Focused on Being Seen

I remember that at the time, our class said three chapters of Tehillim for the elevation of his soul. I used that moment to speak with my students about the world we live in today, where so much of what seems to matter revolves around visibility and recognition.

We are often pulled into a mindset of “see me, therefore I exist,” where the value of our actions is measured by how many people notice them. That idea is reinforced more than we realize.

I once had an older teacher say to me, “If you want to keep working here, remember that what you actually do is not what truly matters. What matters is what others think you do.” It is a statement that reflects a reality many of us recognize, even if we are uncomfortable with it.

A Life Lived Without the Spotlight

And yet, from everything shared about Noam Raz hy"d, the exact opposite was true of him. What stood out most was his humility and gentleness. He was someone who avoided the spotlight and had no interest in publicity or self-promotion.

Unlike those who make sure everyone knows their role and achievements, there were no stories of him highlighting his own heroism. No displays, no need for recognition. Just quiet dedication.

I found myself wondering how someone becomes like that. I wanted to meet his parents and his educators and ask how they raised a child who chose a path of service without seeking reward.

A young man who, instead of choosing elite technological units that could open doors to financial success, chose to serve in the Yamam. Someone who preferred to stay connected to the field, to do the work with his own hands, rather than look for comfort or status.

The Quiet Work That Holds Everything Together

I remember looking at my students and wishing that Noam could walk into the classroom, in his uniform, and speak to them in his simple, grounded way.

Not about glory or recognition, but about something far more meaningful. That sometimes, the most important work is the work no one sees. The quiet, difficult, and often dangerous effort that does not come with applause.

Because the strength of the Jewish people, and the resilience of Israel, depends on people like him. Those who devote themselves fully, without noise, without attention, like still waters that run deep.

The Students Who Already Carry That Spirit

As I imagined that moment, I thought of the quieter students in the room. The ones who stay behind at the end of an activity to collect the trash, who help without being asked, and who do it without making a scene.

I imagined Noam walking over to them, giving a small smile, and saying, “On you, and people like you, our nation stands.”

A Legacy We Can Carry Forward

As my students prepare to move on after three years together, I found myself thinking about what message I want them to take with them into life.

I came across a deeply moving letter written by Noam’s widow, Efrat, and one passage in particular stayed with me. She wrote a simple but powerful request: to take on one small trait, one meaningful action inspired by Noam’s way of living.

To wake up a little earlier. To bring more kindness into daily interactions. To speak positively and let go of gossip. To complain less and focus more. To bring more joy, more humor, and more intention into life.

She spoke about using small moments well, about being present with family, putting aside distractions, and choosing to see the good. It was not a list of grand gestures, but of small, consistent choices that shape a meaningful life.

A Light in Challenging Times

Especially tonight and tomorrow, as we mark Yom HaZikaron, and in a time when the world often feels divided and unsettled, the character of Noam Raz stands out even more.

His life, and the legacy he left behind, shine like a quiet light. Not loud, not demanding attention, but steady and clear, showing us the kind of people we can strive to be.

Noam Raz hy"d. A remarkable person. May his memory be a blessing.