Raising Children
Teachers Gave Up on Her: Her Parents Never Did
A powerful story about parenting, perseverance, and the importance of never underestimating a child.
- Inbal Idan
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(Photo illustration: shutterstock)When people meet Orit Levy today, they see a confident, articulate woman pursuing a PhD and lecturing at respected colleges. Few would imagine that as a child, she was once labeled as learning disabled and placed in special education classes.
Her story is a powerful reminder of how deeply a parent’s belief can shape a child’s future.
A Happy Childhood Suddenly Changed
Orit grew up as the youngest child in a warm, loving family. Her siblings adored her, and her parents poured affection into their home. Her mother was a talented seamstress who lovingly created beautiful European style clothing for her children, while her father worked long hours in a demanding security position to support the family.
But when Orit was five years old, everything changed.
“My mother suffered a severe back injury,” Orit recalls. “After a complicated surgery, one of her feet remained permanently paralyzed. She spent a long time in recovery and rehabilitation.”
For a young child, the experience was deeply painful.
“Visiting my mother in the hospital made me feel like I had no mother at home,” she says. “My father had to work even harder to support us financially, so we spent a lot of time with caregivers.”
A Father Doing His Best
Despite the challenges, Orit remembers her father’s devotion with warmth and humor.
She laughs while recalling one unforgettable incident. “My sister and I once got lice, and my father completely panicked. He cut our hair and poured kerosene on our heads because he thought that would solve the problem. He was shocked when my mother cried after seeing us.”
At the same time, she remembers his constant efforts to bring happiness into the home through small gestures, treats, and quality time with his children.
Labeled as a Child Who Could Not Succeed
After first grade, teachers suggested that Orit repeat the year. Her mother strongly objected, convinced that her daughter was capable of much more.
Looking back today, Orit understands why teachers struggled to place her.
“I was dreamy and distracted,” she explains. “Today I probably would have been diagnosed with several learning difficulties. I also stuttered slightly and was dealing with emotional stress at home.”
Without much understanding of her situation, Orit was eventually placed in a special education classroom.
“My mother was focused on recovery, and my father was overwhelmed with work,” she says. “No one really noticed what was happening with my education.”
Feeling Different
Socially, Orit relied heavily on the protection of her older brother, who watched over her carefully and even taught her self defense.
Academically, she performed well within the special education framework, but she always felt she did not truly belong there.
Everything began to shift in sixth grade, when her father decided she deserved a more challenging environment. Despite resistance from the school, he insisted she be allowed to join a stronger class for some subjects.
The Moment That Changed Everything
The transition into regular classes was not easy. Orit struggled socially and academically, and at times felt painfully aware of the gaps between herself and her classmates.
One especially humiliating experience left her devastated after classmates mocked her for trying so hard in school.
Then came another major obstacle: an aptitude test for high school placement. The results nearly closed the door on her chances of attending a standard high school.
But at that critical moment, her mother refused to give up on her.
“My mother simply said, ‘My daughter can achieve whatever she wants.’”
Those words changed everything.
“You Will See Results”
Determined to prove herself, Orit studied intensely, retook the exam, and succeeded. She was accepted into a girls’ school with a supportive environment where she finally began to flourish.
For the first time, she discovered confidence in her abilities. She developed her own creative learning methods and quickly became one of the strongest students in her class.
At the same time, her family was growing spiritually closer to Judaism, influenced in part by her brother’s journey toward religious observance. Orit says this spiritual growth gave her additional strength and direction alongside her academic success.
Today, Orit lectures at colleges and continues working toward her doctorate. Yet she says the greatest lesson she carries with her comes from her parents’ unwavering belief.
As a teacher herself, she now tries to give her students the same encouragement she once received.
“My father used to say I would become a doctor,” she says with emotion. “He believed in me long before I believed in myself.”
Never Underestimate a Child
When asked what message she hopes others take from her story, Orit’s answer is immediate.
“Parents and educators should never give up on a child or underestimate them,” she says. “Believe in their abilities, and you will see results. I truly believe that.”
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