Divine Match—How Can I Know?

Dear Rabbi, I would like to know if there are any signs written in books—perhaps in the inner dimensions of the Torah—that indicate whether the woman I have met is my destined match from Heaven. Since this topic is very sensitive and often surrounded by confusion and doubts, I would greatly like to know if there are signs through which one can know if she is indeed the intended partner, making everything simpler. It should be mentioned that I have consulted kabbalistic rabbis, and their answers are not always clear, which creates more confusion. I even went to the same rabbi twice, and he said this is something only Hashem can answer, but it is not easy to receive such a direct answer from Hashem, so I remain without knowing what to do.