What should you really look for when deciding whom to marry? Drawing on Eliezer’s search for Rivka, this lesson explores the importance of character, kindness, commitment, observation, and clear thinking in dating. Rather than relying on chemistry, intuition, or signs alone, the Torah model encourages us to look carefully at who a person truly is, how willing they are to grow, and whether their challenges are ones we are prepared to build a life with.

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