Halachot and Customs
Is it permitted to marry a cousin?
Question
Hello Rabbi,
I have a cousin with whom I am very close, and we are told all the time that we are a good match. Is there any problem with marrying a cousin?
Thank you very much.
Answer
Hello,
According to halacha, it is permitted to marry a cousin (Shulchan Aruch, Even HaEzer 15:17), although very often there are genetic problems in such marriages that can lead the children to health problems. Therefore, one should consult with doctors whether this is advisable from a medical standpoint.
Sources: See responsa Beis Moshe, part 6 (siman 159-160), and responsa Tzitz Eliezer, part 15 (siman 44), and responsa Teshuvos veHanhagos, part 1 (siman 537) and part 2 (siman 520), and the book Toldos Yaakov (page 30), and the book Ashrei HaIsh, Even HaEzer, part 1 (chapter 2, section 8), and the book Derech Sichah, part 1 (pages 116-117).
Blessing and success,
Hillel Meirs
