Marriage Guidance

Past harm can explain pain, but it cannot replace choice. A therapist challenges the belief that trauma eliminates free will, and invites a man to reclaim his power to choose his life.

Understanding the need and fear behind the patterns we've created has a unique and powerful element of acceptance. Rabbi Aryeh Ettinger explains.

A therapy-room conversation about misaligned expectations, emotional overload, and learning how to invest in a relationship step by step.

When the calendar brings panic instead of joy, this piece explores how to celebrate an anniversary with meaning, connection, and less stress.

A therapy-room conversation about emotional overload, blurred boundaries, and the work of restoring a healthy relationship structure.

What happens when therapy becomes a courtroom instead of a space for healing? A therapist’s perspective on how couples can move beyond accusation and toward renewal.

What happens when being good becomes a survival strategy? This story exposes the quiet resentment that grows beneath people-pleasing.

How painful childhood patterns resurface in adulthood, relationships, and marriage, and what it truly takes to stop the cycle instead of running from it.

When the magic fades and nothing seems left, a couple discovers that the collapse of their relationship may be the doorway to a deeper, more authentic form of love.

The same event, two different memories. Discover how associative memory shapes our reality and why understanding this can save relationships from pointless arguments.

Why do some conversations lead to growth while others end in frustration? This article explores how the questions we ask ourselves and our partners can either trap us in blame or open the door to real change.

A therapy-room story about respect, humility, and the hidden dynamics that shape marriage.

A practical guide to expressing feelings and needs clearly and respectfully, without blame, defensiveness, or unnecessary conflict.

An exploration of how advice, when offered too soon, can shut down the very process it aims to help.

When couples work harder inside the same emotional box, frustration grows. What needs to change instead?

A parent’s frightening experience reveals how guilt hijacks judgment in moments of fear, and how the same pattern quietly shapes our closest relationships.

How tying your happiness to your partner quietly creates frustration, and what it takes to step out of the pattern.

When initiative disappears, resentment takes its place. But what actually causes that loss?

Why good intentions are not enough, and how learning to compromise correctly can restore calm, respect, and connection.

How seeking comfort from a third party can quietly undermine intimacy, delay healing, and turn love into distance.